Please welcome my birthday guest - Kris Jacen!
Birthdays…
I can think of several
birthdays that stand out to me. Doesn’t everyone dream of turning 21? Finally
being able to do everything and anything they want? Buy a pack of cigarettes
and an alcoholic drink of choice? (not that I actually smoke but it works in
the visual right? lol) I remember turning 21 and then losing my grampy six
months later…then turned 22 and lost my grammie nine months later…then turned
23 and lost my pa eleven months later. Looked at my remaining grandparent and
told her I wasn’t turning 24. I celebrated birthday 23 plus for sixteen years
and when I said my finally good-byes to my nana she wished me “Happy 24th
birthday”.
Happier birthdays to
remember… my birthday when I was maybe four and saw Frosty the Snowman for the
first time. Ran to my grampy jumped in his lap and was talking really fast
because Frosty wished me a happy birthday. My first birthday in Hawaii? Visited
Hanauma Bay with my two year old and sister, instead of a white birthday with snow,
it was white with sand. Oh did I mention that I’m a Christmas Eve baby?
Celebrating my 40th when my mom gave me my grammie’s wedding ring or
my 45th when I could say “oh yeah, I did that half marathon before
this birthday”.
Other happys…remember my
oldest’s first birthday and her being very hesitant to even touch her
individual ladybug cake…she just didn’t want to get dirty. My youngest’s first
birthday in our house here in New York…she was all sweet and “oh are you all
singing for me?”
I can’t wait to celebrate
a few birthdays coming in the next few years…the dh will be 50 in January –
working on what he’s going to get…the oldest will be 16 here soon and is
already thinking about what she wants for a car (ummmm, when did I get this
old?)…and this September my youngest hits double digits; yes, she’s going to be
10. While I miss all those cuddles and them wanting mama to hold them, I
couldn’t be prouder of them and can’t wait to see what they do with each
birthday that passes.
Kris Jacen is the Executive Editor and Formatting
Director for ManLoveRomance Press and its imprints. She was invited to join the
MLR staff in 2008 and has never looked back. Working with the amazing authors
at MLR has allowed her to both hone her editorial skills and indulge her inner
fangirl. She also acts as editor, mentor and sounding-board for newcomers which
lets her “pay-it-forward” and help authors realize their dreams.
I enjoyed the post such sad birthday memories but now I'm sure you will enjoy celebrating your husbands 50th birthday.
ReplyDeleteShirleyAnn(at)speakman40(dot)freeserve(dot)co(dot)uk
Thank you for your birthday post, as I understand how you feel as I shared my birthday with my Nana, so it always made the family a bit sad to celebrate that day after we lost her. And {{hugs}} as your children will always want cuddles from you, maybe not so much and maybe not until they have got a bit older :) slholland22 {at} hotmail {dot} com
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